July 20, 2009

Different Trips to the Same Place

One of the adoption blogs I follow posted a link to this essay that they received from their agency. I thought I'd share it for those of you out there who are adopting and/or experiencing infertility. I want to say again that this preparing & waiting time has been so special and I feel like it has taken my faith & trust in Him to a whole new level, so I am very thankful for that!
Different Trips to the Same Place

Deciding to have a baby is like planning a trip to Australia. You’ve heard it’s a wonderful place. You’ve read many guidebooks and feel certain you’re ready to go. Everyone you know has traveled there by plane. They say it can be a turbulent flight with occasional rough landings, but you can look forward to being pampered on the trip.

So you go to the airport and ask the ticket agent for a ticket to Australia. All around you, excited people are boarding planes for Australia. It seems there is no seat for you; you’ll have to wait for the next flight. Impatient, but anticipating a wonderful trip, you wait-and wait- and wait.

Flights to Australia continue to come and go. People say silly things like, “Relax. You’ll get on a flight soon.” Other people actually get on a plane and then cancel their trip, to which you cry, “It’s not fair”.

After a long time the ticket agent tells you, “I’m sorry, we’re not going to be able to get you on a plane to Australia. Perhaps you should think about going by boat.”

“By Boat!” you say, “Going by boat will take a very long time and costs a great deal of money. I really had my heart set on going by plane.” So you go home and think about not going to Australia at all. You wonder if Australia will be as beautiful if you approach it by sea rather than air. But you have long dreamed of this wonderful place, and finally you decide to travel by boat.

It is a long trip, many months over many rough seas. No one pampers you. You wonder if you will ever see Australia. Meanwhile, your friends have flown back and forth to Australia two or three times, marveling about each trip.

Then one glorious day, the boat docks in Australia. It is more exquisite that you ever imagined, and the beauty is magnified by your long days at sea. You have made many wonderful friends during your voyage, and you find yourself comparing stories with others who also traveled by sea rather than by air.

People continue to fly to Australia as often as they like, but you are able to travel only once, perhaps twice. Some say things like, “Oh be glad you didn’t fly. My flight was horrible, traveling by sea is so easy.”

You will always wonder what it would have been like to fly to Australia. Still, you know God blessed you with a special appreciation of Australia, and the beauty of Australia is not in the way you get there, but in the place itself.

-Author Unknown


  1. Beautifully written. I'm printing it to put in my infertility folder.

  2. Wow, well written by someone in the know........... Thanks for sharing!

  3. That was very beautiful and makes us that have flown to Australia understand those who have to take the boat a little more. Thanks for sharing - you are in our prayers that you get to get on the boat soon! Love ya!!

    Great theme for a baby shower - All Aboard!!!!

  4. That is awesome, I love that!! Thanks for sharing!

  5. Make me cry why don't you?!

    Thanks for sharing. Very beautifully written.

  6. Just found your blog. This essay is perfect. BTW, I think your nursery is beautiful.

  7. and... I'm speechless. I was hoping it was going to say something like:

    So one day, one person offers to GIVE you their plane ticket to Australia so you can go...and that's the miracle of adoption.

  8. I love that! I'm going to share that with my husband!


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